From the 13th to 15th of June, the CLM candidates of Kenya came together in unity and faith to deepen our understanding of conflict resolution. Guided by our motto, “Save Africa for Africa”, we gathered in Meru, Nairobi, and Kitelakapel, as members of one family – all connecting either in person or online, with a shared purpose of growth and transformation.
This important meeting was not just a routine workshop. It was a space of learning, reflection, and renewal of our commitment to the mission founded by St. Daniel Comboni, whose spirit still burns strong in each of us.
Teachings on Conflict and Its Resolution:
The session began with a rich and insightful lecture on Conflict Resolution by Linda from Kitelakapel. We explored the definition of conflict resolution, the characteristics and importance of conflict, and its three main aspects: cognitive, emotional, and behavioural. Linda also guided us through the steps involved in resolving conflict in a constructive and Christian manner. We also reflected on different styles of handling conflict: Compromising – Avoiding – Accommodating – Competing – Collaborating. Each style brought out how different personalities approach conflict, and how we can all learn to adapt and apply healthier methods in the mission context. We were reminded that conflict is not the absence of love, but rather an opportunity to grow, understand each other better, and strengthen our bonds.
Contributions from Fr. Sylvester, Alberto and fr. Maciek:
Fr. Sylvester followed with a lecture that connected conflict to our missionary life, drawing examples from the life of St. Daniel Comboni, our patron. He reminded us how Comboni navigated cultural tensions, resisted opposition to his vision, and continually sought reconciliation among divided groups in his mission. This showed us how to resolutely address conflict with compassion and clarity, guided by our faith and the teachings of Christ. Fr. Sylvester’s words emphasized that peaceful resolution begins from within, with prayer and humility.
Alberto gave us a practical and much-needed talk on handling conflict without drama or chaos. He reminded us that being missionaries means being ambassadors of peace, not just through words but through actions. He encouraged us to always aim for maturity, calm, and understanding in times of disagreement.
It was a thought-provoking lecture, which emphasized that conflict is a normal part of life. He encouraged us to establish principles for resolving conflicts before they arise. He also introduced us to a practical tool called STABEN, which breaks down conflict resolution into:
– S – Source
– T – Time and place
– A – Amicable approach
– B – Behaviour
– E – Emotion
– N – Need
Lastly, Fr. Maciek led a recap session on Lectio Divina, reminding us how to properly prepare ourselves—spiritually and mentally—before engaging with the Word of God. It was a call to deepen our relationship with Scripture as a regular part of our formation.
Moment of sharing:
We concluded with individual reflections, where each participant shared what they had learned, enjoyed, and taken to heart during the session.
New Beginnings
A very exciting highlight of this meeting was the Meru group welcoming four new members. These newcomers, after engaging fully in the sessions, expressed their joy and eagerness to become part of our mission. They have officially become candidates of CLM, and we couldn’t be more thrilled to journey with them. Their enthusiasm and openness brought new energy and hope, reminding us that our mission is growing, and the seed planted by St. Daniel Comboni continues to bear fruit.
And there is more! In Nairobi, we were delighted to welcome, as well, two new candidates to the Comboni family. Their joy and enthusiasm added a special touch to the session, and they expressed how meaningful and welcoming the formation experience was for them.
Participant Reflections:
“I really feel comfortable and I’m ready on this journey and I really love your bonding and hospitality.” – Eliphus, new candidate, Meru
“I thank God for connecting me with this group.” – Getrude, Meru
They joined CLM because they want to dedicate their lives in serving God and do acts of charity.
Looking Forward
As we concluded our sessions, we left feeling empowered, not only with knowledge but with a renewed sense of commitment to walk this path together. The weekend was a beautiful reminder that growth comes through honest conversations, listening with love, and facing conflict head-on with grace and faith. It was fruitful, enriching, and continued to equip us with essential tools as we journey forward in our missionary vocation. We look forward to more moments of learning, bonding, and deepening our mission. Together, we continue to Save Africa for Africa – in peace, in unity, and with hearts full of hope.
Yvonne Kilemi and Daniel Gaithuru
